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2010 June 01 Hide and SeekNinety-eight...ninety-nine...one hundred! Ready or not, here I come! I always hated being the seeker in hide and seek because it was so frustrating when I couldn't find who I was looking for. Some people can find really good hiding places, which would make the search for them even more difficult. But as I think about it, it wouldn't be much fun if I opened my eyes to find one of the hiders sitting on the couch in plain sight. The whole thrill of the game is the catch, finding who you're looking for. It can be frustrating, but when you do finally find someone who's been hiding in a really good place, it makes the game and the time spent searching for them feel so much more worth it. It gives us a sense of accomplishment for being able to seek out someone who was hidden really well.
Sometimes I think this same idea applies to our walk with God. It may happen when we're walking through life and come to a split in the road and have to decide which way to go, or it may happen when a storm comes and we need to find shelter and answers to life's struggles. Either way, when these situations occur, it is our turn to go looking and seek God to show us the way.
Seeking Him in difficult circumstances can be hard for us, especially when we are humans who always want answers here and now without having to wait, but with God we can't always expect that. God always has a perfect time to reveal Himself to us and show us what to do next. If we never had to seek after God and he always showed Himself right whenever we asked, we wouldn't ever grow more patient or learn persistence. We wouldn't learn to trust Him in the hard and painful times or when we can't see what's up ahead.
God has sought us from the beginning when we were living in darkness and showed us the way home. He continues to seek those who haven't turned to Him yet, and He also seeks those who have turned away or strayed from the path. So when we are looking for answers or guidance or standing in the middle of a storm, that's when it's our time to go seeking all the hidden truths God is waiting to reveal. ![]() Sarah Smith grew up in Oklahoma and graduated from the University of Central Oklahoma with an English degree. She loves being a child of God and serving in missions. She has gone on trips to Germany and London and served a recent term of five and half months in London as a missionary intern. She recently applied to seminary and is looking forward to attending Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in the fall to study Christian Counseling.
2010 May 11 5 Ways to Keep Your Student MinisterAn Open Letter to Churches in America Regarding Student Ministry Leaders Want to know how you can keep that youth guy around? Here's a five-step action plan for all the list-makers and strategists out there. 5) Respect him. In other words, don't treat him like he's one of his students. He's a grown man and God's Chosen to shepherd the kids in your church and community, so give him the respect he's due. (1 Thessalonians 5:12-13) Don't belittle his calling just because God called him to work with students and not super-smart adults like you. And I say that as respectfully as possible, adults. (Note: One way to show him respect is through the title you give him. He's not directing traffic - he's providing spiritual care for a whole demographic of your church's population. So let's all collectively agree to retire the phrase "Youth Director," okay? Or you could stick with it and start calling your pastor the "Grown-Ups Director.") 4) Serve with him. Let him know you are eager to share in the biblical mandate to disciple the next generation (Titus 2:2-8). Don't shuffle him and your students off to their own room or even building and expect him to single-handedly ensure that each is truly discipled. That's not just his job. It's yours, too. Dig in deep with the students and experience life with them. See the needs for yourself firsthand, especially before telling him what the youth calendar should look like.
2) Listen to him. He has more insight than you probably give him credit for. Give him the opportunity to have a voice in your church that has influence outside the walls of the student ministry. His ministry is probably the most creative one happening in your church right now, so why not channel some of that creativity into other areas? He probably hasn't been around the ministry block long enough to be jaded yet, and he can hold up the mirror to your face when you utter ministry death-knell phrases like, "But it's always been done this way." And trust me, we need someone to help us look at ourselves a little harder when we start saying things like that. (1 Thessalonians 2:13) 1) Stand with him (otherwise known as "don't fire him"). The tenure of student ministers is growing shorter and shorter, but that's not the result of our generation's "nomadic" spirit. Trust me, we don't get an itch to uproot our families and move every 18 months. Most of us get a little help from the church leadership in making that decision. You see, in the interview process, everyone puts their best face on, but the masks come off when the real ministry starts happening. And in the light of day, there's a lot of ugly stuff going down in today's churches. But rather than confront it, it seems easier to send the new guy packin'. After all, those youth guys are expendable anyway, right? (P.S. All of this applies to your girls minister, too. Minus the facial hair...hopefully.)
2010 May 06 Why Modesty?We often get caught up in the do's and don'ts of modest dressing and totally skip the 'why'. What's the big deal anyway? Why does the length of your shorts or the width of your tanktop straps really matter? There are many reasons, but I'd like to tell you about three.
So what's the big deal? Why choose modesty? It sets us apart, prevents us from being a stumbling block, and keeps the focus on Jesus. My hope is that we would learn to dress in such a way that God gets ALL the attention.
2010 April 19 You Up for a Challenge?Ten verses...when I was a junior in high school, I was challenged by a soccer teammate to quote ten verses from the Bible. I had been trying to tell this girl more and more about Jesus, and that day she told me that if I could quote ten verses she would listen to me. Otherwise, she would walk away. Right now, I want you to think about it...answer that question. Can you recite ten verses from the Bible including where they are from? Here is the reality...most of you probably cannot. However, you could quote ten songs. You can sing along word for word to most of the music on the radio. Many of you could sing along to ten entire CD's. Ten movie lines would also be easy for you to quote. You could probably manage ten children's songs and likely ten nursery rhymes. The list goes on... But what about God's Word...the Bible...the very thing that contains the truth from God himself. Sadly, we rarely take the time to memorize it. Psalms 119:11 says, "I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you." Learning and committing verses to memory is the very process where we hide the word of God in our hearts. We do this to both honor God and to protect us from Satan. Did you know that Jesus quoted scripture from the Old Testament when he was tempted by Satan in Matthew 4:1-17? God's Word is truth, and it helps us get through the difficult parts of life. So how do you memorize scripture? Here are some tips: 1) Find verses that are meaningful to you. Look through your Bible and find verses you have underlined or highlighted and start with those. Also think about things you are struggling with and find verses that relate. Here are a few good ones...if you are struggling with:
2) Memorization comes from repetition, so you have to practice. 3) Develop a disciplined system. For example, I keep note cards with verses on them next to my bed and review them every night before bed. Once I am certain I remember one, I add a new one. 4) Pray that God would help you to remember the verses you are practicing. To finish the story, that day on the soccer field, she walked away from me because I couldn't do it. I promised God to never again allow my lack of discipline in learning His Word to keep me from a chance to share with someone about his love. So now I have not only learned ten verses, I am working to learn 10 chapters! So I challenge you today to start with one verse. Find one verse and spend time going over it time and time again until it sticks. Then add another...you will be at ten before you know it. Are you ready? Will you accept the challenge?
2010 April 01 Fight the Good FightSometimes life gives us lemons. Things fall apart. Parents break up. Loved ones die. Disasters happen. The world is never all we hoped it would be, but in times of distress...when we're beaten, bruised and at our weakest...those are the moments we need to hold on tight and never surrender. Paul makes a great statement in 1st Timothy 6:12. He says, "Fight the good fight of faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses." We have greater things to look forward to beyond this life, a place of peace where no pain, sorrow, anguish, or fear will exist. But until that time comes, we must give our best to the One who gave His all. We must remember that we are called to a better life, and even though life on this current earth is full of trials and tribulations, we can still enjoy the beauty of heaven and the blessings of our Father if we live in Him now during this life. In order to receive all those great blessings, we must choose each day to walk faithfully with Father and abide in His love. The following poem demonstrates a commitment to live in Him even when we're crushed by struggles. Let Me Live I fight and I sweat I bleed and I cry The world is a battlefield But I'm too broken to fly
I grow weary and tired I'm faint and I'm weak Yours is the strength My soul longs to seek
The pain here is brutal It mangles my heart When from this place Will I soon depart
I want to be free I want to jump high This battle it drains me No longer I try
Teach me to see Help me to give Protect me in battle Just let me live
It's in the trying times when we're at our weakest that Father is at His strongest. So when you're bleeding and broken, there's a Healer to mend you. Tired and weary, there's a Helper to give you strength. Lost and confused, there's a Leader to guide you. Afraid and alone, there's a Friend who will never leave your side. And when you think you've lost all hope and feel like you can't go on, there's a Father to carry you in His arms until you're ready to start again. Next time your world falls apart, let Father put it back together and never stop fighting the good fight of faith.
2010 March 17 Taming the Emotion MonsterVincent Van Gogh once said, "Let's not forget that the little emotions are the great captains of our lives and we obey them without realizing it." You see, Van Gogh was a gifted artist, yet he was a tormented soul governed all too easily by his emotions. But struggling artists aren't the only ones who allow their lives to be captained by their emotions. Having served in vocational ministry for over a decade, it's frightening to see how often we "ministers" allow our emotions to overtake the guiding of the Spirit. Think about it...It's certainly uncomfortable to watch a toddler throw a temper tantrum in the grocery store, but it's even more painful to watch a servant of God throw one in their Father's house. Don't get me wrong - I know how tough ministry can be. People insult you, judge you, and even betray you. And when attacked, our natural human instinct calls us to take an aggressive action. But our spiritual instinct teaches us that no sin from another justifies a sinful response from us.
Maybe you've learned to process the anger, but you're being bombarded by another of the enemy's attack strategies. You look around at your ministry, and you just don't seem to see any results. No one shows up to that Bible study you spent weeks preparing for...a girl you thought was solid turns up pregnant...the church tells you there just isn't any money for that event you'd been planning. You look around at other ministries, and they seem to be thriving. You go home at the end of the day feeling defeated and unsure of your calling. Sound painfully familiar? Well, it's one of the enemy's most effective emotional manipulations. If he can convince us to compare our ministry with others, he can breed insecurity, jealousy, and doubt. If he can convince us to measure our spiritual success by a worldly standard comprised of numbers and dollar signs, he can generate fear, frustration, and even despair.
For those of us in the trenches of ministry, it's critical that we give God the green light to show us the truth behind our thoughts and emotions. Without Him at the helm, it's truly impossible to navigate the often choppy waters of ministry. So I challenge you to step back this month and give the wheel to the One who is able to quiet your emotional turmoil with three simple words: "Peace, be still."
2010 March 08 Morality Plunge for Mall GirlsIf you never thought materialism was a big deal, then you'll definitely want to check out this article outlining the sad, moral plunge of the "mall girls" in Warsaw. A few of the high points (or low points in this case) include:
So what do you think about materialism now? This is a convicting remember of the damaging ripple effect that often comes with the love of money.
2010 March 01 Getting Off the Emotional Rollercoaster
Now, God gave us emotions for a reason. I'm not saying they are bad. In fact, they are a blessing. Emotions allow me to rejoice, to experience the "feeling" of love (which is only part of love by the way), to feel sad when I need to feel sad, to feel sad when my brother or sister in Christ is broken and hurting and needs me to hurt with them, to laugh out loud with a big smile because I am so happy inside, and so on and so on. My emotions truly are a blessing from the Father. In fact, He tells us in Proverbs that He is keeping our very own tear bottle for each of us! However, there is a bad side to these crazy things called emotions. The bad side comes in when I begin to allow these emotions to control me. When my sad day drives me into depression just because I can't seem to shake it off. Sometimes my emotions cause me to act rude, mean, and just plain ugly toward people. When I let my emotions control me, I become like a human rollercoaster. Sometimes I am happy, sometimes I am mad - up and down, up and down. So the other day I was reading Colossians 2:9-10...
This verse tells us that Christ is fully God, therefore God being fully Christ (confusing I know, hang with me). It also tells us that we have been given the FULLNESS of Christ - not just a little, not just some...no ALL, fullness, one hundred percent filled with Him. Okay, the next part says that He (Christ) is the head over EVERY POWER AND AUTHORITY. Does this mean that we have power through Christ? YES! Complete power through Christ - we have power through Christ over Satan, evil powers, and evil authorities. But check that last part again...Christ, who is head over every power. Sometimes, my emotions get so out of hand that they tend to have power over me. They force me to act a certain way, or believe a certain thing about myself. For instance, I am a sinner inherently, therefore I am going to sin (even though I hate it). Sometimes when I sin, my emotions go crazy and i feel all this guilt, sadness, and condemnation even after I go to the Father and ask forgiveness. Because of my emotions, I began to go crazy and start believing that Jesus doesn't love me anymore or isn't happy with me anymore because I screwed up. I know that's not true because of 1John 1:9! Okay, so what am I saying in all of this? I am saying that emotions are a good thing, a blessing in fact. But when they become an EVIL power in my life and begin controlling my actions, moods, and motives, I've got a problem. I must realize that through the name of Jesus I have power over my controlling emotions of sadness, insecurity, anger, hatred, love, happiness, and EVERY OTHER EMOTION YOU CAN THINK OF! God loves you. He has blessed us with emotions - use them wisely!
2010 March 01 A Missionary in SchoolMost people see school as a place to kill time until the afternoon when they're free to have fun with friends or watch TV. Some see it as just a place where teachers try to cram all of this information into your head that you think you'll never use again. But maybe school can be more than that. Maybe school is a mission field that can be used to reach out to others and show them the never-ending love of God. Other than sleep, school takes up the majority of a student's day. Most students are at school for at least seven or eight hours. That's a big chunk of time to be in one location for nine months out of the year with the same people every single day. A lot can happen in someone's life over the course of nine months. But, as in most cases, we are often too self-centered to notice that other individuals walk the planet, too. People are stereotyped and labeled under categories that are mostly untrue. But for some reason, most of us still stick to our own groups in our own little worlds and aren't concerned about the needs of those around us. But what if you did something different? What if you decided to make a change? What if instead of gossiping about the awkward girl in school, you stood up for her? What if you offered your pencil to someone who needed it? What if you showed the new girl around instead of letting her lose her way? Or what if you just said hello to someone who's hardly ever spoken to? And what if it changed their world? Little acts of kindness can make a big difference in someone's life, especially someone who's having a horrible day. And the more little acts of kindness you do, the more courage you'll build up to do greater acts of kindness. If we girls would look at school as a mission field where we can show love to others, then more opportunities to show Christ's love will come up. If you're in tune with the Spirit and your eyes are focused on Him, you will be able to see little ways to love on other students. We don't always see the practical places like school as being a mission field because somehow we're under the impression that a mission field must be some foreign country that's poverty stricken and where no one knows Christ. But a missionary is someone who is sent out to a location to help others and share what they believe. You don't have to be working in an orphanage in Africa or handing out food in Haiti. You can be right where you are, so let Christ use you to change a life, a school, or even the world. Remember, as it is written in Matthew 5:14, "You are the light of the world...," so shine on!
2010 February 28 Forgiveness: The Fruit of the Divine
The following prayer was found on a scrap of paper during the liberation of Ravensbruck Concentration Camp in Germany during World War II.
I am moved by this prayer in ways I cannot even express in words. You see, this particular concentration camp was created primarily for women. Between the years of 1939-1945, over 130,000 female prisoners passed through the gates of Ravensbruck. Only 40,000 lived to tell about it. Corrie ten Boom, one of my spiritual heroes, was among that 40,000. She eventually shared her story through the book, The Hiding Place, which was later made into a movie as well. One of the recurring themes of the book is forgiveness. When I look at the betrayals in my life, they seem inconsequential when compared to the suffering inflicted by the leaders of Ravensbruck. Yet somehow the women held captive there allowed God to infuse them with the capacity to forgive. So how can I not allow God to do the same in my life? Forgiveness is a gift we can choose to give. It is not conditional upon the wrongdoer's acknowledgement of their mistake. Think about it...some people will never accept responsibility for their actions, nor will they seek your forgiveness. But we can bestow the gift of forgiveness anyway, and in doing so, we can bear the fruit of the Divine.
2010 February 27 Mother Teresa's Prayer
"Dear Jesus, Help us to spread your fragrance everywhere we go, flood our souls with your Spirit and life. Penetrate and possess our whole being so utterly that our lives may only be a radiance of yours. Shine through us and be so in us that every soul we come in contact with may feel your presence in our soul. Let them look up and see no longer us but only Jesus. Stay with us and then we shall begin to shine as you shine, so to shine as to be light to others. The light, O Jesus, will be all from you. None of it will be ours. It will be your shining on others through us. Let us thus praise you in the way you love best by shining on those around us. Let us preach you without preaching - not by words but by our example...by the catching force, the sympathetic influence of what we do...the evident fullness of the love our hearts bear to you." What would happen if each of us woke up each morning and lived each day with the goal of spreading His fragrance wherever we go? Oh God, let that be our prayer and our desire - to preach you without preaching, not by words but by our example.
2010 February 26 The Prayer of JabezNestled into an Old Testament book that rarely gets much attention is a short prayer from a guy named Jabez. We don't know much about him, but we do know that God liked his prayer. Check it out below:
So what does he ask for?
And God granted what he asked. May we be like Jabez today, lifting up simple but bold prayers to our God who is able to answer in abundance.
2010 February 25 Spirituality of MillenialsMany assumptions are being made by today's church leaders regarding the millenial generation, and most are not positive. This generation has been blanketly labeled by many as apathetic, lazy, and worse. Some say that this generation lacks a moral compass or any passion for spiritual things. However, a recent survey says something very different. A few results of the survey are listed below:
The changes are not as drastic as we have assumed - their manifestation of belief just may be reflected differently than that of other generations. It's time for us to stop assuming and start asking.
2010 February 25 Acknowledging His CharacterOne of the best ways that we can grow our prayer life is to observe and study the prayers lifted up by the saints in Scripture. One such prayer is found in 1 Samuel 2 and is voiced by Hannah, the mother of Samuel. In 1 Samuel 1, we see that she prayed and wept before the Lord, asking Him to give her a son. And when God responded with the birth of Samuel, she promised to give him back to the Lord. This was no empty promise, for Hannah honored her word and brought her son to live with the priest Eli in the house of the Lord. She then prays an amazing prayer that acknowledges the character of God. It begins like this:
She has just given God the one thing she wanted more than any other - a son - yet her soul is still able to lift up her Maker simply for who He is. Even though she is making such an extravagant sacrifice, she is not consumed with her own emotions and demands. Rather, she pauses to reflect on the character and sovereign nature of God. How refreshing her words of praise must have been to the ear of God, who spends so much of His time listening to our selfish requests. So what would happen if all of us today adopted the heart of Hannah and prayed simply to praise? Prayer for the Day:
2010 February 24 Out of This WorldWhile it would be nice to transport all Christ-followers to our own personal Caribbean island, it's just not possible nor is it what is best. We cannot live inside our own Christian bubble and still expect to reach a lost and dying world. Christ knew this, so in the moments leading up to his arrest and death, He lifted up a prayer to His father on our behalf.
So our prayer should not be for God to take us "out of this world" but rather a plea for God's protection during our journey. Without His help, there is no way we can pursue a holy life in such an unholy environment. But with His protective Hand, we can learn to live a set apart life that is "out of this world" and a living testimony to all who see it. Making It Personal:
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